Linda Mtoba refuses to be a domestic wife
With social media now being a part of our lives, people tend to weigh in on each others’ private manners. Celebrities are even more prone to cyberbullying and Linda Mtoba is one of the recent victims. Taking to Twitter, the actress goes on a social media rant to call out the Negative Nancies.
The oddest thing is woman trying to shame me cause I don’t cook. We all have different lifestyle choices I prefer to cook when I feel like it. It’s not a chore I need to do everyday. I don’t have to prove my worth through domestication. Even if I hated it & didn’t want to do it’s my choice to make.
The Independent woman is under scrutiny as she has to balance work and family without compromising the other. However as times are changing so are societal values but masses remain rigid.
Linda Mtoba refuses to be a domestic wife
“Women must stop this notion of domestication as a badge of honor especially in marriage. Let other woman be. Our love Languages are not the same. Our marriages are not the same, some of our husbands like to see us relaxing & pampered being soft,” Mtoba adds.
The comment section goes in frenzy with tweeps sharing their two cents:
It’s because they think marriage is “earned” by being domesticated,mainly cooking. So it confuses them that you’re a wife but you only cook when you feel like it. They’re a very weird bunch
I don’t enjoy cooking at all & my person knows this. He cooks most nights and I’ll do the dishes. My worthiness is not dependent on how good a Pap dish I can make.
“I don’t have to prove my worth through domestication!” Linda Mtoba continues. Being a goo wife is more than the house chores according to the actress. Next time tweeps come with guns blazing on the topic, they should remember that Linda is all about the soft life.
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Linda Mtoba refuses to be a domestic wife