How a Ben 10 scammed Granny R400,000 after pampering her with sex<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n
A Birtish lonely granny is counting her financial and emotional losses after the was conned \u00a318,000 by a Ghanaian Ben 10 boyfriend.<\/p>\n
Beth Haining a retired probation officer fell for Rodney Cudjoe, a then 30 year old Ghanaian musician.<\/p>\n
Haining said she has been a stupid woman who should have done better under the circumstances as she used to laugh at other women who fell for these toyboys from Africa.<\/p>\n
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The two met and chatted online sometime in 2014 before she flew to Ghana’s capital Accra to meet her young boyfriend.<\/p>\n
Before she could understand what she was getting herself into, Rodney proposed her in the presence of his friends and she couldn’t say no.<\/p>\n
He quickly arranged a surprise wedding and their relationship was solemnised despite disapproval from Beth’s children.<\/p>\n
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Beth narrates her story:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n
‘I was a bit lonely as my sister Gaynor had passed on a couple of years earlier and my mother had been diagnosed with dementia but he was very friendly and chatty. We got on well.’<\/p>\n
‘So we met and started chatting online as friends.<\/p>\n
‘I thought we were friends, but he started saying I had nice hair and he couldn’t wait to touch it,’<\/p>\n
‘We saw each other’s pictures and we started flirting. He asked to borrow some money for his studio equipment\u00a0 as he was waiting for a cheque to come through.<\/p>\n
‘It was just \u00a3200 so I did, he did not pay it back as promised and borrowed me another \u00a32,000 and promised that we would share the profits from his shows.<\/p>\n
‘We agreed to meet in Ghana and i bought my tickets and headed for Accra.’<\/p>\n
‘He picked me up at the airport and gave me a peck on the cheek, but in the car,<\/a> he gave me a full-on kiss which gave me butterflies,<\/a>‘ Beth said.<\/p>\n
‘I realised then we weren’t just going to be friends and that night we had sex.<\/p>\n
‘We had sex in the morning, lunch time and evening everyday, three times a day.<\/p>\n
‘He asked me to marry him four or five times but i denied as i did not know him well.<\/p>\n
He proposed me just a week before i was about to leave Ghana while on stage.<\/p>\n
‘I loved him but I thought it was too soon to get married.<\/p>\n
‘ I realised he had lied to be as he was not 40 but 30 years old.<\/p>\n
‘It was alarming but too late for me to change plans.<\/p>\n
‘I went back to Britain and paid 3000 pounds for Rodney’s visa.<\/p>\n
‘It was approved in 2017 and he came to my house.<\/p>\n
‘I was so happy to see him but he was a changed person.<\/p>\n
‘He didn’t stop at complaining from food to weather.<\/p>\n
‘He didn’t want to do any work in the house, he said i was supposed to do it as the wife.<\/p>\n
‘I hope other women will learn from my mistakes.’<\/p>\n
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