Black Coffee was invited on the Podcast and chill with MacG, where he opened up about his private life. The Grammy award-winning DJ addressed gender-based violence allegations by his estranged wife Enhle Mbali, their divorce and his dating life. He clarified that he is not interested in dating Enhle Mbali again and has moved on with his life.
Coffee also pointed out that he was not going to marry again. The DJ revealed that his life goals have changed due to growth and had no plans of ever walking down the aisle again.
“Today I know for a fact I won’t get married again. I’m clear about that because I am now in a better space in understanding who I am. I also understand the kind of pressure society puts you in without ever backing you up. I am with someone and I am in the most peaceful place with that understanding that there is no pressure.”
Black Coffee also opened up about having private relationships to avoid unnecessary drama and pressure.
People do not destroy what they don’t know
The celebrated star reflected on his past relationship with Enhle, saying he believed they grew apart when they started wanting different things in life. He also denied abusing her physically and emotionally. However, Coffee admitted that he cheated on his ex-wife Enhle and fathered children out of wedlock.
“You meet and you have a common goal, but one of the common goals is understanding each other’s pain when you meet. We want different things when we grow, and one of the things I want is to give that dusty little boy as many hugs as I can and reassure him and make sure he’s seen. Which is why I’m doing the internal work I am doing, and that changes me into a different human being as we grow into the relationship.
“I think I can safely say we both started wanting different things. If I can’t say we, I’ll say definitely I did. Over time we started wanting different things and problems start,”
Black Coffee also revealed that his marriage with Enhle did not work out, but they still communicate and co-parent their sons well. The rapper does not want his children to suffer from his break-up with Enhle.