A man can only view you in three ways. He can see you as a friend. He can see you as a sex partner or he can see you as his wife. Notice I didn’t add girlfriend to the list? That’s because there’s no such thing as a girlfriend. In cultures around the world, there’s no such thing. Let me tell you something. I’m in a relationship but at home affairs I’m classified as a single man.
Why? Because a man either has a wife or nothing. Simple as that. Women know this too that’s why marriage is so important to them.
A man either sees you as his wife, friend or sex partner. A lot of women are with guys that don’t see them as someone they’d want to get married to so they fall into the sex partner category. Nobody knows them.
Nobody sees them. They are invited over when the guy wants sex & given transport money after. That’s not a woman a guy is serious with. That’s a sex partner. He might act like they are in a relationship for the sake of getting consistent sex but the reality is this.
A man that keeps you as a secret. A man that makes sure that even his own family doesn’t know you is more than likely just using you for sex. When you matter to a man. People know about you. It doesn’t even have to be social media people but people in his circle