Malaika Mamabolo love story: Malaika Mahlatsi issued a full statement on her relationship with Mamabolo and accusations of doing a PHD for Mayor Ekurhuleni Mayor Mzwandile Masina. Malaika has decided to write a full statement after she has been accused on social media by ex boyfriend Katlego Mamabolo.
STATEMENT ON FALSE ALLEGATIONS LEVELED AGAINST I MY PERSON AND THE EXECUTIVE MAYOR OF THE CITY OF EKURHULENI
I am writing this statement on the advise of my lawyer, who believes it prudent that I should state my side of the story as pertains to the malicious accusations that have been leveled against my person by Mr K Mamabolo and which have been making rounds on social media over the last 24 hours. This statement may go into record.
Malaika relationship with Mamabolo
Towards the end of March 2020, I entered into a brief relationship with Mr Katlego Mamabolo, a relationship that was the product of mutual consent from two rational adults and which lasted barely two weeks. Mamabolo and I communicated mainly through phone calls, which were Initiated by both of us. Call records will demonstrate that the bulk of our calls were made by me, and contrary to his accusation that this was due to my pursuing him, it was a simple economic decision resulting from the fact that I am on a Vodacom Red Premium contract that gives me unlimited call minutes. Mamabolo, on the other hand, is on prepaid and rarely had airtime to make calls and so our agreement was that he would indicate either by text or by leaving me a missed call, when he wanted us to speak, and I would then make the call given that I had the means to and it was therefore only logical that I should be the one calling. This is a fact that can be easily corroborated by individuals, friends and associates, with whom I have a similar arrangement as pertains to calls. There is therefore nothing unique about my calls to Mamabolo, contrary to his attempts at using them as evidence of him being pursued by me.
At some point after we had been engaged in these telephonic exchanges, Mamabolo and I made the decision that he would come and spend time at my place in Centurion so that we could get to know each other better. He subsequently did come to my place and we did, upon mutual agreement, engage in consensual sexual relations with the understanding that we were trying to build a relationship. Mamabolo left my place after about 3-5 days to attend a funeral and I then decided and communicated to him that I was no longer interested in pursuing a relationship with him. This decision was the result of extensive reflection on my part. Mamabolo was reluctant to accept the end of our relationship and would consistently ask me to give it another chance. He sent me many messages asking that we work things out, to which I consistently indicated I was emotionally unavailable to him. When his pleas fell on deaf ears, he proceeded to use manipulative tactics, including telling me that he had slept with other women as evidence that he in fact did not love me. When I refused to engage him at this level, he resorted to informing me that he was in fact lying and pleading with me to go for counselling with him so that we could save our relationship. I declined this and requested that he seek counselling on his own and allow me to move on with my life as I was not prepared to be with him. I pleaded with him repeatedly to accept my decision. For a little while, he retreated and I was thankful for this and decided to accept the proposal of a man, who I will call Guy (not his real name), and who I believed and still believe is the man I want to be with.
On Saturday, 9th May 2020, Mamabolo sent me a text message indicating that he missed me and wanted to hear my voice, and asking that I call him. I responded with an emphatic “No’ and left it at that. The following day, on Sunday, 10th May, he sent me a text message at 11h47 wishing me a happy Mothers’ Day and congratulating me on my new relationship. His message was not malicious in tone and so I assumed that he was in fact at a point where he was finally getting his closure and that my relationship with Guy, which I had acknowledged publicly, provided the finality he needed to move on. Because of the politeness in the tone of his message, when he called me shortly thereafter, I picked up his call and indicated that I was busy and would call later. I did as I had promised. During that call, Mamabolo asked that we please get back together and I repeatedly said no, indicating to him that I was with someone t love and want to build a relationship with, and that he needed to understand this fact. After more than an hour of a conversation in which he was pleading for reconciliation, I hung up the phone as I realised we were moving around in circles. He then sent me a text message informing me that my partner would be “sorted” because, and I quote his words verbatim, “I love you that much, there is nothing I would not do for you I responded to this by demanding that he respect my partner. He called me repeatedly and I eventually answered his call, during which he pleaded with me to break up with my partner. When it became clear that I wasn’t going to, he proceeded to send me WhatsApp messages informing me that he was going to destroy me because I had destroyed him. Weary of fighting with him, I indicated that I wasn’t going to fight and that he should think deeply about what he was doing to me given his role as the founder and director of a private prosecution organisation that seeks to provide legal assistance to victims of gender-based violence. His response was that he did not care about losing his company as losing me was the ultimate tragedy in his life and little else mattered. He then informed me that he would release photos of me masturbating, on Facebook, at 8pm that evening. I was unmoved by this threat for the simple reason that I had never sent Mamabolo a nude photo and knew therefore that his threats were baseless and aimed at blackmailing me into giving him another chance.
Malaika went on to say, “Mamabolo proceeded to go onto Facebook and mention me by name, and post screenshots of our private conversations as well as a photo of me holding sexual handcuffs – clothed. I had sent this to him during a flirtatious conversation and indicted that I would use them on him. This is nothing untoward as adults do engage in such activities. He went on to cast aspersions on my name and more disturbingly, on the person of my boss, claiming that I am doing a PhD for my boss. I want to address these damning allegations.”
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